Child Abuse Story From Jeremy

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Child Abuse Story From Jeremy

by Jeremy
(Toronto, Canada )

I tryed always to block out what my father did....since I was about 4 years old he never really showed that much affection towards me. I always thought there was something wrong with me until I was 12 i just thought he hated me He never started hitting me unti i was about 13 when my mom gave birth to my sister until then i was the only child.

I remember the day like it was yesterday I had just turned 13 two weeks before and i was walking threw the kitchen right after i woke up. I heard him scream for me in the living room i couldnt quite make out what he was saying so i just decided to keep walking..then out of no where i felt someone shove me i fell and hit my head on the counter i stared up at him and tryed to get up he grabbed my arm and threw me against the wall and it seemed like he was going crazy the look in his eyes still haunts me to this day i walked away with a broken rib black eye and a busted lip. It was on and off threw the next couple of years with the abuse i tried to stay out of his way and mostly failed at it I had been hospitalized 3 times. When i was 15 something happened to me that a child should never have to go threw. I was sleeping in my room and my dad came in with another man i recognized the man my dads brother i had only met once. I sat up and my dad grabbed onto my arm and i asked where we were going he threw me into the bathroom and my uncle handed him what looked like money but i still had sleep in my eyes and my dad said have fun. He raped me and then told me to take a shower i was still crying the next morning when i relized that my bed was covered in blood i freaked and told my dad about it he slapped me in the face and said never bring it up again. I finally got enough courage to tell my mom and she tryed to move away from my dad but after struggling for a couple of months we had to go back. I had to deal with that b*****d until i moved out i never saw my uncle again and havent visited my parents in 4 years i am 22 now and am married. I am a survivor.

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Jul 04, 2011

Jeremy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

As you move through the various ages and stages of your life, these horrific events will likely come back to haunt you, if they haven't already. Please consider some form of counselling in order to help you deal with what you endured in that house of horrors. You didn't deserve to be physically, emotionally or sexually abused. You didn't deserve to be neglected. You didn't deserve an enabling mother, a mother who betrayed you by going back to the man who continued to abuse you. You DO deserve help for the fact that you suffered through all of these. You were and are lovable. You were and are worthy of dignity and respect. Always remember that. I will also point out that their is no statute of limitations on child abuse in Canada, if you decide you want to report to the authorities. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jul 04, 2011

Such Horror
by: Anonymous

Jeremy, I can't believe that your mom would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick pig of a dad and allow him to beat, offend and berate you 24/7...how dare she! Shame on her for running away from you all the time instead of protecting you from that sad, tragic brute! I am just as disgusted by her reactions to you getting abused; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. If that brute didn't want to be there, then he should've had the courage to leave instead of abusing you. The path that he and your mom and even that slimy excuse of an uncle chose was and still is inexcusable. You deserved so much better than what those animals did to you. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to offend and abuse you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. Oh, and I'm glad that you're in a safe place now; I just hope that you try counselling and that you look into reporting those sadistic beasts for dad and uncle to prison because abusers don't stop abusing until they're forced to stop.

Jul 05, 2011

Your cry for help has been noted: You have found a safe place to share:
by: maurice

Jeremy: this is my second attempt at writing a comment today: Yes, when I opened up my mail this morning at 7-30am you story was the first one I read: It evoked rage and anger at the man who cruelly abused you in the name of being your Father: He was no more a Father than the man in the moon: He was a beast and as I said in my previous attempt which was too long and did not go through That we both have names for him that it would be unfair to print them here: Anonymous sure speaks from the heart my heart thoughts too about these people: Jeremy please read Darlene's comment and see what you can achieve to benefit yourself in letting go and moving on in your life: Counselling,would be a good place to begin: She knows best, she wants what is the best for you as we all do who leave comments for you: I WANT THE BEST FOR MYSELF: Good on you Jeremy, think positive, act positive and be positive in all you want to achieve in YOUR life: You are a brave, courageous and true person Jeremy: You found Darlene's Safe Haven Site: Your cry for help has been heard, she has acknowledged YOU; Now you be good and kind to yourself and act on her advice: IMPORTANT surround yourself with caring, loving, honest, and true friends: one's that will lift your spirits when they sag: One's who will keep you safe from anyone who would ever try to abuse you again: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body; Yes, Young at heart Jeremy: I am and was not to blame for what those people did to me: Take part with like minded people in team sports sporting and cultural activities: A new lease of life will open up for you: You'll value and appreciate that beautiful body of yours: New horizons will open up for you Jeremy: I know because I have seen the difference it makes because I have been a soccer coach: an encourager of this motto for loads for the past 40 years: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: You are gifted: you are tallented: with leadership qualities to share them with others: Get out there:

Jul 05, 2011

i hope those two have the worst karma ever die or go to jail god take care of that and you maybe reconnsider sue them both later or anonomous maybe tell lawyer he do it for you some way
by: Anonymous

that story litterally makes me tear up cry why is i have sons your age and i know a jeremy too friends you are a survivor and you married how wonderful for you . you know that karma is real they will get what coming to them, i am not sure how you feel about that to charge them you can get lawyer prosecute your uncle and your dad if you had wanted to why in god name your mom go back everyone think i was nuts when determine live poor to start food church and no plumbing or electrical i bided time got credit took back control of my life helped family thats what you need to do too and you did very great , you did that, hard too after that abuse on you. but they got lawyers you should sue him too in court civil any way you can both uncle an him , that take alot its up to you if you safe now, but why your mom with that nut come on she maybe in danger too doesnt know it god no one stay with a rapist of thier son it be better live on street or poor or shelters see thats how i felt even with domestic violence stuff control stuff i cant see how any one stay or have to go back to that kidn of father there be no way in hell at least me i thik she is troubled, did she beleive you thats why maybe she didnt i would have as a mom but you got married thats so wonderful , ok i hope you ok and have a wonderful life and so sorry that happen to you keep you in prayers , you know god on your side watch over your family thats for sure

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