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Child Abuse Story From Jennifer3 Part 2

by Jennifer
(Gaffney, South Carolina, USA)




I'm pretty sure some of you have read Child abuse story from Jennifer3 on this site. I am now 17. I'll be 18 in June. I am still scared of my father for what he did to me and my mom that night. I still hide in my closet when he yells at my mom. Ever since that night I've been trying to put the pieces of my life back together. I'm currently going through counseling and saving up money to help pay for an apartment or a house. I am also going to college during the fall for culinary arts. My dad still scares me a lot and he still calls me names (even around my boyfriend and my friends) but I have learned to ignore him sometimes, but most of the time I can't. My boyfriend is wanting so bad for me to move away from my dad right now but I can't 'cause I have no place to go but to a shelter. My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to a shelter so he's been begging his mom to let me move in with them. So far the pieces of my life are coming together. I can't wait to start my own life. I just want everyone who's ever been treated like that to know there is hope. Don't give up. There is a god.

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Mar 01, 2009
Cowering from your father is one thing; turning your back on resources is another...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Jennifer, I do hope you'll find a safe place to go soon. Your boyfriend doesn't dictate your choices, you do. As I wrote in my first comment to you, contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. If you refuse to do so, you are robbing yourself of an opportunity for someone to talk to about your current situation, someone who might be able to help. I can understand why you are cowering in a closet, but if you continue to turn your back on possible resources, nothing can even remotely change in your life. And while I appreciate that you are coming to my site and sharing, no one here can truly help you in the way you need it most. You must help yourself. Turning 18 in June won't miraculously change your life, as much as you may believe that now. Yes, you may be out of your parents' home, but you'll still need a plan for your future. And if living with your boyfriends' parents becomes an option, you'll still need a plan for your future. Please call Child Help.

Thank you for sharing more of your story with my visitors and me, and for your all-important message to others who visit here. I do wish you all the best.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

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