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Child Abuse Story From J&E

by J&E
(New Zealand)




i am 17 i have never realy rememberd my childhood now i no why when i was 5 till 8 my step brother playd with me i keept pushin him away bt he kept comin back for more he is 3 yeahs older then me i hardly see him now every time i would stay at my dads my step brother would be there hed watch me get undrest and jump in to my bed he ust to build huts out of the toys and cossins in the play room so dad and my step mum couldnt see i neva though any thing rong unlike he stuck it in me i told my step sister shes the same age as me she told me he done it to her just now have i rememberd all the things hes done i hate every bit of him for what hes done to me i cant stand to be around him noing what he did but i still cant tell anyone coz noone will believe me i just want to forget again the sleepless nights just noing it has made me a shy unstable teenager and i dont no wat to do




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Jun 02, 2011
J&E:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. Please contact the 0800WHATSUP Child Helpline (0800 942 87 87) in order to speak to someone about what you're dealing with. They have free phone counselling for anyone aged 5 - 18. Visit their website by copy & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.whatsup.co.nz

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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Jun 13, 2011
I am not to blame: He preyed on my innocence and vunerability
by: maurice

I can't tell anyone, how often do we hear or read this by someone who was abused as a child/teenager/adolecent: Fear is the truth because I am afraid: I never told my mother I was being physiaclly abused in Boarding School because I did not want to upset her: Read Darlene's comment carefully, slowly, over: she has in a short few words said alot to you: Get help: speak with some one you trust: A teacher: a school counsellor: surround yourself with real and true friends your own age and gender: I believe this to be important for male and female teens/adolecents so that they can talk the talk about the intimate stuff that is going on in them about there sexaulity: the real and the natural feelings there having for the opposite sex etc; To have a friend in that categury is a jem; J & E you were abused by this step-brother; tell on him so he will not abuse other girls: even his own step-sister he abused as well: If he does that he is a danger to have around little/big girls. Now you get on with living your life to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: this will mean getting out there taking part in team games: sportings and cultural activities: I've known and seen the transformation in childre/teens/young adults in their lives: You will make natural and true friend for life: you'll surround yourself with genuine and caring people; You'll respect and value your beautiful slef and your beautiful body: You'll blossom into a gifted, tallented, with leadership qualities you never knew or thought about: So up, up and out dream your dreams and make the difference in your life healthily

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