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Child Abuse Story From Jasmine

by Jasmine
(Location Undisclosed)




So how do I start this.....well when I was probably 6-8 years old I was sexually abused by my older brother. I didn't know what we were doing was bad so..I never told anyone except my best friend but I'm not gonna do anything about it. I'm over it I guess.. Well before my parents got divorced my mom used to beat me and my brother if we were acting "bad" we were kids I don't get how we act bad. Well parents got divorced and my dad and I moved to Chicago and he got remarried to a b***h..I hate her. Well I stated visiting my mom and I decide I wanted to go live with her but my dad wouldn't let me. I started getting older I'm 14 now, and we'd have spool many fights like I no longer like my parents.i started living with my mom when I was 13. When I started school she decided she wanted to go see her fiancé out of the country. & she pretty much threw me out at my dads and neither of them like me cause I'm rebilous. I snuck out and my dad beat me. He didn't even send me to school so I'm not in school right now... I moved in with my sister, & I really want to get in Foster home I just don't know how. & I stated cutting myself.



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May 10, 2011
 Jasmine:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're heading down a path that will see you in more trouble than you can even imagine. I've been there myself. Instead of cutting, I was bulimic. I wasn't wanted by my parent. I was beaten by both of them. If I hadn't gotten the help I needed (in the form of therapy in my twenties) I don't know where I would have ended. You're lashing out because of what you've having to endure at the hands of not only both parents, but a stepmother you despise. Whether or not a foster home would be a better place for you, I cannot say. What I do know is that the only thing you can control are YOUR choices, YOUR responses. If you want to be treated with dignity and respect, treating others with dignity and respect is the answer, even when those others don't deserve it. This is a tough pill to swallow. But if you continue along the rebellious path, your parents have the legal right to make decisions for you that you will hate for a very long time. They can strip you from the ability to decide anything for yourself. Please consider contacting one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You don't deserve to be mistreated. You deserve to be loved. Reach out to people out there who are in a position to help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
May 10, 2011
 Such cruelty
by: Anonymous

Jasmine, you were given a raw deal because your "parents" were so twisted that they didn't even know how to take care of themselves, never mind be parents to you. They didn't know how to love even themselves; all they ever knew was hate so they should've known better and loved and cherished you. Oh, and if they (especially your so-called dad) didn't want you to sneak out, then they should've had the courage to tell you about the causes and effects of sneaking out and then become better role models for you instead of brutally abusing you. The path that they chose for themselves was and still is inexcusable. Oh, and you are not to blame for their nearly-sadistic behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they only misused it over you, so please tell someone you really trust.
May 11, 2011
 Thats my story i forgot to add a few things...
by: Jasmine

Well if you guys read the story..i havent been in school...so i failed 8th grade...& its all my parents fault...
Im running away soon, cause i cant handle it.. Im a 100% sure foster home will be better for me. My family is religious & i dont believe in what they believe ,& if they heard i had sex or etc.. Theyed literally kill me. My dad said he gonna kill me when he was beating me up just cause i snuck out( what else am i suppose to do i dont get to see friends cause they think people that arent there religion is bad) but my siblings trying to stop him hitting me so hard. I wish i called the police but i had no phone to use.

Foster home or running away..
If i dont go to a foster home im leaving & i dont care if im on the streets so be it.
May 11, 2011
 Your cry for help has been noted: You have found a safe place to share:
by: maurice

Jasmine begin from here: You have found a womans heart: read her comment: don't go any further untill you actually make a real sense of Darlene's words to you: She is so honest that her respect for you is real: She has told you her real story as you have her: now you will be a winner: you will do what you know to be best for you: you are intelligent, you are gentle, you are kind, you are one brave, strong woman: Hi you know your body is beautiful. you know Hi, I'M SPECIAL. Jasmine I spent this morning affirming teens that they should celebrate you: I asked them rather than hear me saying celebrate you: use the I am worth celebrating: I am worth everything: In all the world there is only one me as there was only one Darlene: Get her message in her comment to you: God created only one me: sadly into an abusive situation: Hi Jasmine: live your life to the full from here on in: Follow Darlene's comment get off off your bottom move on; You have a live to liv e after being abused: Darlene has empowered herslef to empower others after her abuse: she shared in honesty with you in her being bulimic: she over came that to be the great a good person she is for you today: You;ll be a winner over your abusers as she was: Say i love me to that great and good woman looking back at you from the mirror: Be gentle and kind' be nice to that body of your soothe it with scenting oils and creams. Jasmine you will be a winner follow Darlene's loving heart words to you>

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