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Child Abuse Story From Janet

by Janet
(Dover, Kent, England, UK)

It happened a very long time ago, during the War. I was evacuated to Lancashire from London in 1940 with my brother. I was 13 and he was 12. We were lucky that we got to stay together at the same place. We were taken in by a couple who ran a grocery shop. They were in their 40's and seemed quite pleasant.

We'd been there for a few weeks when I started to feel uncomfortable with the man (we had to call him Uncle H*****.) He came into the bathroom to go to the toilet when I was having a bath, but seemed more interested in looking at me. Then a while afterwards, my brother took some sweets from the shop without asking, and the wife (Auntie B****) found them. My brother admitted taking them, and I was also blamed for allowing him to steal them. We were ordered to our bedrooms and told to get into our nightclothes. I thought this was the punishment, but soon afterwards we were told to come downstairs.

Uncle H***** told us we were both going to be punished. Auntie B**** was sitting on a chair, and she called my brother over to her. She told him to remove his pyjama bottoms. He refused at first because he was wearing nothing under them. She grew more angry, and he eventually pulled them down. She pulled him over her knee and began to spank him very hard with her hand. This went on for what seemed a very long time. When she stopped, she told him to go to bed. He ran upstairs crying. By this time I was very scared.

Uncle H**** then said it was my turn. He said as I was older it would be a more severe punishment. I was told to remove my nightgown. I did this, although I was extremely embarrassed to be naked in front of them. I was made to lie face down on the floor while they took turns spanking me with their hands, then a belt and a slipper. After they finished, I was told to go upstairs.

The following week, I was told once again I was going to be punished yet again, but this time for not taking my shoes off indoors. Auntie B**** offered me an alternative punishment "that wouldn't hurt." Naively, I agreed to this. It was later that day, about 8 pm, and I was in my room. Auntie B**** came up and told me to get into my nightgown and come downstairs. When I did, I was surprised to see other people there. As well as Uncle H and Auntie B, there were another four oldish men and two women. I was told that they were friends and not to worry, but I would have to do what I was told or I would get the cane. Uncle H then produced one and swished it for effect.

Over the course of the evening, I was forced to participate in acts I still have nightmares about. A man took photos as I had to do what each of the men and women told me. The worst thing was my brother being brought down and the two of us having to play "mummies and daddies" while the others watched. To top it all, I was still caned, along with my brother, by one lady who seemed to enjoy it. The others all cheered her on.

The abuse lasted for a further six months, until we went to stay with another couple who were very kind. We never spoke of it again. I only came to terms with it when I decided to see a counsellor a few years ago.

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Child Abuse Story From Janet

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Nov 16, 2007
So twisted . . .
by: Darlene Barriere - webmaster

Oh Janet, I'm so glad that you went for counselling. I sincerely hope that it has helped you gain some piece of mind.

I can only imagine the fear and uncertainty for you and your brother when you were so young and so innocent: To be in the middle of a war, to be homeless and without your parents, to be shipped off to some unknown place and placed with some unknown people; only to be subjected to cruelty and perverted sexual abuse. And that's what it was, Janet; perverted sexual abuse. This sick and twisted couple used you and your brother for their sexual gratification, and they showcased the two of you for their equally sick and perverted friends! My God . . . you and your brother deserved so much better. And that couple, along with their "friends," should have faced a prison sentence that kept them away from children for the rest of their miserable lives.

I thank you for sharing your experience with all of us.


Nov 16, 2007
Best Wishes to You
by: Anonymous

Dear Janet,
What a hellish nightmare to have to experience during such an already tramatic time in your life.I am very sorry you and your brother had to endure such horrendous abuse at the hands of someone you should have been able to trust.I hope the best for you,and you will be in my thoughts,this life can be so painful and unfair for children,it should not be,as a survivor of abuse myself I just try to be a better person than those who didn't treat me right and I try to be empathetic to those who were likewise mistreated.No child ought to have such experiences as you had,it reflects the evil in some humans who can barely be called human.I am glad you continued on after such things happened to you.It must have been very painful for you at times.I wish you had not had to suffer such pain,you truly did not deserve it,you and brother deserved to be loved and treated with kindness.

Dec 13, 2007
You're Brave
by: Kristina M.

My heart goes out to you. I think you are very brave. I hope you and your brother are still close (friends).

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