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Child Abuse Story From Haley

by Haley
(Arkansas, USA)




i just turned 16 i was phicaly mentaly abused from the time i was 2 till i was 14 by my mother and the many men she brought homw but when i turned 8 my aunts husbend started sexualy malesting me till this day only my bestfreind and "HIM" know.He made me think it was ok when i was younger but as i got older i rilized what he was doing was wrong,but he has always told me he would kill me if i told and no one would believe me anyway.It got to the point where i started cutting myself and hating life he made it a living hell if it wasnt already. HE would make me go placs with him and do stuff to me take me home to be yelled and beaten my my moms husbend.The bad thing is my little sister went home and told my mom he touched her she was my moms world when my mom asked me if he had ever touched me i lied i still dont no how she couldnt tell. Thank god when i was 12 my mom hit me in the face one night and i called 911 by now she had 4 kids of her own and her new husbend had 4 i was mama i told the cops what happend adn they made it out it was my falt but they took all of us i ended up having to live with "hiM" he started malesting me every night and morning or anytime noone was home i started acting up so they would make me leave. they sent me to my nana were he would still come get me all the time thats when he started raping me i hate to say it becouse i love my grandma but her getting sick made it sop cuz i was sent to live wth my other aunt 2 hours away but still to this day i hate life i hate looking in at myself i try to avoid grown men cuz im scared of what they will do to me.I have dreams about it and wake up yelling i dont sleep in the dark if i sleep at all plz if your going threw this tell someone i didnt and i am still to scared to do so this and telling my bestfriend is the only tine i have told i am just hoping he isnt doing it to his own kids or his freidns kids




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Child Abuse Story From Haley

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Oct 19, 2011
Haley:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Sex offenders, pedophiles don't change their ways until someone makes them stop. He is very likely sexually abusing other children. That doesn't make it your fault for not telling...fault is always on the shoulders of the offender because the offender chooses to offend. You do however have power now, power that you didn't have before. You can disclose what happened. And keep disclosing until someone does something about it. Please contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you endured. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Haley, you didn't deserve to be physically or sexually abused. You most certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Talk to your grandmother about getting you some counselling so that you can deal with the effects the abuse has had on you. You so deserve that kind of help. You deserved to be treated with dignity and respect and love. Start by treating your Self with that dignity and respect and love. Call the number. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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