Child Abuse Story From Gemma

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Child Abuse Story From Gemma

by Gemma
(United Kingdom)

well it was when i was 2years old my mum met my step dad he stared calling me really nasty names when i truned around 4 years old i was sat in a chair he give me a pen he put it to my mouth and pushed it down my neck i was so scared of him when i turn 5 years old i was in bed crying because my ear was hurting me he came up stairs and drag me out of my bed he hit me because i was crying and wanted my mummy but he would not let me go to her he yelling at me calling me really nasty names thats my story that evil man is dead now so i dont have to be scared no more now i am 25 years old getting on with my life but i can not forget what he did to me

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Aug 27, 2011

Gemma:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Please consider some form of counselling for what this man did to you as a little girl, but also for the fact that your mother enabled the abuse to continue. She must have been aware it was going on. She owed it to you, her precious daughter, to ensure you were kept safe from harm, but she chose to continue to live with a man (and I use the term loosely) who continued to abuse you. This makes her just as responsible for the abuse as he is. As your mother, it was her job to protect you. Instead, she put you in harms way, and then did nothing to stop the harm from continuing and escalating. Counselling can help you deal with the betrayal and abandonment, as well as the memories of abuse at the hands of such a sick individual. You didn't deserve to be mistreated, Gemma. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Getting that kind of help can also help you with trust issues, and possible relationship issues. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Aug 28, 2011

Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

Gemma, I can't believe that your mom would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a stepfather and allow him to beat and berate you everyday...how dare she! If that beast didn't want to be there, he should've had the courage to leave instead of sadistically abusing you. The path that he and your mom chose is inexcusable. Too bad he died because he should've gone to prison for all those terrible crimes that he committed against you, since abusers don't stop abusing until they're made to stop. You are not to blame for his sadistic, ignorant behavior; he was (and still is, posthumously) to blame because he chose to abuse you. You were the child; he was the adult; he had all the power and only misused it over you. I really hope that you're in a safe place now and that you try counselling.

Aug 28, 2011

I am very special: I am highly gifted: Always Believe in Yourself
by: maurice

Gemma: Good on you for finding the courage to search for and find Darlene's safe haven site (home) because she has on very large family of visitors and welcomes you NOW too: Yes, Her comment to you is so personal she is gifted at speaking from her woman's heart in her knowledge, her trainging, and turning her won childhood abuse into empowering you and me and all her many visitors into believeing in themselves and get on with living their lives to the full: She suggests some form of counselling, don't be afraid of it Gemma it will benefit you and put what you have shared into total perspective for you: I notice you are only 25 years of age: Young enough to change your weekly sheduling to begin having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Yes, as the counselling will work wonders for this sure will too naturally: So up, begin to take part in TEAM sports with like-minded people your own age and gender: You'll make real wholesome natural and good friends for life with loads who will say hello when they meet you among your TEAM mates: I am sure you are gifted>tallented with leadership qualities to share with others and become a a captain of the team: You are Amazing Gemma: The architect of your own destiy: You are beautiful: both inside and out: You are Dynamic Ever cahnging ever growing: LovableL: Exactly as I am: Kind-hearted Reaching out to others: Optomistic: Anything is possible. Powerful: beyond imagination: Resourceful: Obstacles are stepping stones: Spiritual: Having a human experience: Zestful: Happy to be ME: Look in the mirror and say that to the ME LOOKING OUT AT YOU: Happy to be me: I'M SPECIAL and I LOVE ME: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: I WILL I CAN I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: That you are Gemma: Act on Darlene's love words to you from her heart:

Aug 29, 2011

Wishing you a Happy life!
by: ML

Gemma, I'm sorry this happened to you.
Gemma, you suffered horrible pain because of this that sick man.
But, Gemma, now that this man is dead. Bury those memories of abuse with that man.
What happened to you as a child cannot be changed. Thank God you made it.
Gemma, try hard to forgive that sick man. So that you can go on with your life.
Gemma ask God to help you. I believe and I hope you will see too, that God has a purpose for your life. You are young, turn to God for happiness and a good life.
As you grow in your faith, you will find the peace & understanding that you need. May God Bless you always. Have a happy life, you deserve it!

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