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Child Abuse Story From Gabrielle1

by Gabrielle
(Tennessee, USA)




Trying to save a nephew from abuse and a survivor's story: 
This is not only my story, but the story of my one-year-old nephew. For thirteen years I was abused as a child by mother and hid it from my father because I thought he would kill my mother. I loved my mother as a child, and still love her, but not as much as I used to.

When my parents split in 2003 I decided to let the truth be known of how my mother treated me, because I knew that as long as my daddy had custody of me my mother couldn`t hurt me. Well, needless to say, I survived after having second degree burns and twenty-seven stitches put in my head from her abuse!

Now my one-year-old nephew is being abused by his father and I have called the law to see if I can prevent the things that happened to me as a child from happening to him. I honestly hope and pray I don't have to bury my nephew because of what his father has done to him and probably will do.

Please keep me and my nephew in your thoughts and prayers. May God Bless all who have been through any kind of abuse!

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Feb 13, 2009
You are a rescuer to someone who desperately needs rescuing...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Gabrielle, I'm so glad you did tell about what your mother had done to you, and that as a result you were kept safe from the violence. Your experience has put you in a uniquely knowing position with regard to your nephew. Be vigilant in telling what is happening with regard to him; his life may hang in the balance. You said you "called the law"...I suggest you contact Child Protective Services or the equivalent in your area. Sometimes the authorities fail to report child abuse to the appropriate agency, and as a result the child falls through the cracks. Your nephew has a rescuer in you, Gabrielle; a rescuer that you didn't have growing up, enduring terrible abuse at the hands of your mother. That tells me you've turned pain into power...good on you, Gabrielle. The world needs more people like you, who are not willing to just stand idly by and allow a child to be abused.

Thank you for sharing your story and that of your nephew's with my visitors and me. I wish you both all the best.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Feb 14, 2009
God Bless You
by: Linda Settles

God Bless You Garrielle for taking action to save your nephew. The writer of the Book of James tell us that "Pure religion and undefiled is to rescue windows and orphans in their distress." I think we can generalize that statement to include the emotionally abandoned and abused.

What you have done took a lot of courage--something that it seems you have a lot of. I commend you, and more importantly, I will pray, as you have asked us to, and know that we are praying the will of God--interceding for you, your family and this precious child.

Love,
Linda Settles

Feb 16, 2009
God Bless You!
by: Linda

I think you are a very brave woman and I wish I had an aunt like you when I was a baby. God will bless you for protecting this little boy from his abusive father. And please don't ever regret your decision for telling the authorities because his father could seriously hurt him. He isn't man enough to pick on someone his own size. I'm sorry your mother abused you so badly and I hope you are out of that situation now. I will pray for you and your little nephew and may good things come to the both of you...........

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