You were there to listen to Frances; that's huge! I must also say that this 21-year-old is likely molesting others. I suggest you contact the people at Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) for some guidance. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you and may be able to help you help your cousin, Frances. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help
Thank you for sharing yours and your cousin's story with my visitors and me.
I want to say that what you did was totally awesome. I'm so your cuz was so glad you were wiling to listen to him and let him get that off his chest. I work at a daycare and we recently heard about a situation with one of our kids at home. Basically mom's live in's nephew had molested the boy (he's 4 by the way). Well one day when I was talking to him about mom and things at home he just told me what happened. Now my bosses already knew what'd happened, but they told me to tell them if he said anything which I did. Well basically he told what he did and I asked him some questions and told him that I was proud of him for telling his mom and me and that if something like that ever happened agai he could always tell me, one of the othere teachers, or his mom. I'm pretty sure he was also glad that I was willing to listen to him and help him to deal with it. I'm so proud of him for telling cuz there's so many stories of people on here who don't or they do and they're not believed. well I just thought I'd say good job on being there for him and say that I know he really appreciated it.
Sep 10, 2010
You are a good and true Man: You did what you thought was best by: maurice
Dan 1: Celebrate you NOW: This Day: know you are a brave ans strong man: From your comments I learn alot about you and myself in your caring nature of empatising with others who visit who visit this site: What truly puts things in perspective for me is Darlene's comments to each one personally when she has the time to do so: I stay with her comment for some time before I share my heart felt feelings with the visitor she has fully valued and respected by letting him/her share the truth about what happened to them when they were molested and abused: You rightly Dan 1 give her full credit for her site and the great benefit it has been (is) and will be for those who search and find it: She is truly remarkable: Great you were there for your little cousin Francisco: You listened, he trusted you, that is great Dan 1: Now Darlene has offered you great and loving affirmation: You know she has given you the means of safeguarding other children and indeed all your other little cousins from his molesting hands: Gay people are not child abusers, they fit into the general percent of those who do abuse, Paedophiles, molesters Etc: Even if your cousin of 21 is Gay that is fine: It is what he has done to Francisco is the worrying factor: I value and respect Darlene in what she said to you in her Comment: Dan 1 by telling someone on him you could be safeguarding many children: Your cousin Fransciso will confide in you again in trust: Then you can offer what ever help you feel would be good for him: Leave well enough alone until he says something to you: It is your cousin of 21 you need to concern yourself about: You'll do what you know to be right for all concerned: Hi I know and undisclosed 43 knows you have alot to offer in your comments to us: Thank you Dan 1
