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Child Abuse Story From Cheyenne J

by Cheyenne J
(Wyoming, USA )




It happened when I was like 12 yrs my mum boy friend moved in with us and when it was about three mouths he stared to act really weired he would al was look at me and my two older sisters and well one when mum was out he raped me I felt so disgusting and the only one and when mum came home i could not tell her . Later he startared to do when mum was home when we would sit on the couch (me and my little sis) he would sit buy us and rub my leg and took my hand and touched him . He even made us watch a porno and u might ask me what my mum did she watch it all happen. Later I got the nerve to tel my real dad and he almost killed him and he got charge and got sent to jail I haven't talk secns and now I feel fine with telin my storie becuz ur NOT THE ONLY ONE!!!!!!!!!!

To this very day my mum denies it and say that she coulnt do any thing cuz she was on drugs (,no sh*t) and now I am 14 I no how to help ppl that has the same problem or had . It helps talkin about it p.s I leave with the only one that help me my real dad.




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Child Abuse Story From Cheyenne J

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Jun 10, 2011
Cheyenne:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You can be so proud of yourself for telling. That really did take a great deal of courage. The fact that your mother continues to deny what is so obvious means that she's lost you in her life. That's a very big price to pay. I delighted that your real dad stepped up and is providing you with a safe and loving environment. Cheyenne, if you find yourself having difficulty dealing with the effects, be honest with your dad so that you can get the help you need. You say that you know how to help people who have been through this; make sure you don't forget to get help for YOU in the process. Stay well, and thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Jun 10, 2011
SMILE
by: asia

i'v been there
im not saying that i went through the same thing but one of my family members malisted me and his wife danied the hole the thing even him it hurt me and i always wondered hew would do that to some one
"BUT GOD HAS A PLAN FOR THEM
AND GOD BLESS U I COULDENT AMGINE GOING THROUGH THAT WITH MY MOM SITTING BESIDE THERE."

Jun 11, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abuser
by: maurice

Great Cheyenne J: what a brave teenager you are to write your story so that it will give hope to many who find themselves maybe in the same situtaion as you did: Hi special one just take Darlene's heart words to yours: read them slowly let them hit the love part of your heart so you will get the full benefit of them: She now wants what is the best for you I WANT WHAT IS THE BEST FOR ME NOW TOO: Good on you Cheyenne J: Ah sure you are a 14 year old teenager full of natural energy: gifted: tallented: with leadership qualities: Now get out and about playing team sports with your own age and gender friends and fellow students: This will always help you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: You'll make real and true natural friends for life and have many who will make you smile when you meet them Your team mates: yes, your natural father is a great daddy now be sure to trust him and if you need help from doing some form of counselling he will fix it up for you: Always believe in yourself Cheyenne J:
I WILL I CAN I MUST
BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT
I'M SPECIAL AND I LOVE ME; HUGS AND CUDDLES GIVE YOURSELF AND THE BEAUTIFUL ME LOOKING OUT AT YOU FROM THE MIRROR: My Motto: I WILL I CAN ETC

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