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Child Abuse Story From Cheryl J

by Cheryl J
(Ontario, Canada)




Sexual, Physical and Emotional Abuse: 
I was sexually abused from the time I was five to three weeks before my sixteenth birthday by my father along with many of his friends. My first time that I was sexually abused was by my father and one of his friends. My mother wasn't home and my two older brothers and myself were in bed and I woke up to use the bathroom and to get a drink from the kitchen, the next thing I knew was that I was being thrown to the top of the kitchen table. My father held my legs down as his friend had his hand over my mouth and he held my arms down with his other hand. My father pulled off my panties and he sexually molested me then when he was finished with me he threatened my life and told me to get cleaned up and get back to bed. I was so sore and the blood was everywhere. I couldn't find a bandaid to cover up the bleeding and I couldn't tell anyone what had happened so I took a large amount of toilet paper and placed in my panties where the blood was and then still crying went to bed. I was so frightened and all alone that all I could do was hold my teddy bear and cry quietly to myself until after my mother came home from bingo. Then I cried myself to sleep knowing that my life depended on me keeping my mouth shut the rest of my life. This continued and the threats got worse the older I got.



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Child Abuse Story From Cheryl J

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Jan 10, 2010
Cheryl:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I do hope you are getting some form of counselling in order to deal with the repercussions of being so terribly violated.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 12, 2010
You are one of the lucky or unlucky children of abuse.
by: maurice

Sadly through Darlene's site the percent of Savage Beast like your Father are growing. He does not deserve the name Human Being. For a Father to molest/abuse his bautiful/tender/gentle lovely teenage daughter with a help from his friends he should suffer real pain to make him full aware of what he caused you during it all and now. CherylJ say over and over again IT WAS NOT MY FAULT. I was helpless totally vunerable on that table with two savage beasts holding me down. Abusing my most private and persoanal of my being. I did not deserve my dignity as a Teeenager/Adolecent for that to be done to me. Especially by the Man(Animal) I should have beeen protected by. Please talk to someone you really trust who will walk with you, hold your hand and bring you to a counsellor/therapist. Don't give up believeing in yourself. You must rid the society around you of such Animalistic beasts who prey on the innocent and the vunerable. There is heavy wind and rain banging agaist my window pain as I comment on your tragic and sad story. My gut feeling is to bring all a abusers out into the middle of no place and cage them in with just the bare essentioals of food and cloth's without the comfort of a warm/cosy prison cell. Maybe that might teach them what the effects their abuse makes on their innocent prey of children/teens/adolecent. Please rid your family of this beast. I can, I will, I must because I am WORTH IT.

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