Child Abuse Story From Carys

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Child Abuse Story From Carys

by Carys
(United Kingdom)

When I was 5 I used to hang around with these 3 boys who were 2 years older than me, no-one ever thought nothing of it because everyone knew everyone on our street. But one day they all told me to come with them into this woodland area, i didnt think nothing of it, but they started touching me and the told me to touch them, but i didnt think this was wrong, but i did start to wonder when they wanted to put themselves inside of me, but i didnt want them to think i didnt want to be friends with them as we were the only kids on our street. But this carried on until i was 9 until we moved away.

I still think about this regularly as I am 15 and go to the same school as all 3 of these boys. I have told no-one about this but i think of it every time i close my eyes and it scares me. Im just so confused, I hope by telling my story I can get the confidence to tell my parents.

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Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach

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Apr 09, 2010

Carys:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Though technically, child on child sexual abuse may not be considered "child abuse" per se, depending on where you live, (and especially since these boys were only 7 when they started) you do need to tell your parents what happened. It's the repercussions that you are left with that are the most important to look at. And it is highly likely that they are still molesting. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Apr 10, 2010

better way to avoid being abused
by: obaid

if belonging to any ethinicity use the vail (vail system) . if u r a girl try to b vid girls who r modest , club up urselves in group .avoid upto maximum the intraction vid boys(male), if at home b much more adhirred to mom or sisters dont b open means, unvailed even b4 ur brothers or fathers this is wt islam gives solution to it.segrigation of sexes upto maximam......... if u want i cn give u detailed discription to such problems from islamic prospective .

From Darlene: Abaid, please refrain from including your email address in your comments, which is strictly prohibited on this site for reasons of safety. ALL email addresses will be deleted. Thank you for your cooperation and understanding.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Apr 10, 2010

obi
by: obaid

next 4r u is a soln: dont speak up vid ur parents . as , u got known to wt happnd n by bringing it to every 1 will catter more wrath on u from society point of wive u must make changes in urselves.wt i already suggest u & nt even talk to those guys ever in ur life if ever u confront them. n by so, u learnt a lesson that wn u will b the parent that time u shud hv more care towards ur chid n sagrigate her always from boyes or either their company. & so, is the msg for all parents who forget caressing there child n allowing them to hv a boys company. n regarding wt u feel abt urselves time is the best healer of all n that is the property god had bestowed time vid. n apologize god vid high pleasing n he will bring peace to u n ur soul inshaallah.....

From Darlene: Carys, with all due respect to Obi, I do not suscribed to much of what is being advocated in this comment or in the one below (from the same person). And once again, I've removed the email address for reasons of safety for all my visitors.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Apr 10, 2010

Thank you
by: Anonymous

I thank you for taking the time to read this, I have been trying to tell them, but they are not the most understanding of people and I am afraid that they might blame me.

Apr 29, 2010

Fear? No, Survival!
by: Brittany

I feel so bad, nothing like this has ever happened to me. Im 15 and im shocked that anyone could do that to someone so young. I think that the best thing to do would be to tell your parents and get out of that situation. I cant help but think about all the kids out there who get sexually abused. I hope they have the courage to tell an adult. I would be terrified of that. It scares me to think that when i have kids, this could happen to one of them. I cherish your courage and i hold your story in my heart. My heart goes out to you. I hope you have the strength to carry on, i have the strength because of you. For this, though you dont know me, i carry your honor.
-brittany ♥

May 02, 2010

Thank you
by: Carys

Thank you so much! X

From Darlene: You're welcome, Carys. There is something else I must say here: I have a policy that does not permit the use of full names in comments or submissions. But I don't have access to the field where you put your name, so I've had to delete your post and re-post it as though I was a visitor. I ask that you please not use your full name when commenting or submitting contributions, as this puts you at risk; and your safety is most important to me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

May 03, 2010

?
by: Brittany

I dont recall much of anything but i still believe.

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