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Child Abuse Story From Brittany3

by Brittany
(USA)




i was 8 years old when i was at my fathers house he was the only man i could ever trust he loved my so i thought... He told me that we were going to "hide" from the dangers outside the room ever since i was 6 i have seen nothing but blood and violence. I was trown against walls kicked and hit multiple times. i never thought my own father woud do some thing this terrible. We (me him and my cousin) went into the room he was drunk and high. We went in ther trusting him. I was put in a chair and told not to move. There was a big man with a gun to my head i watched my father rape my cousin. I was angry at myself the only thing i could think was that it was my fault because i didnt want to stay home. i threw a fit. I loved him uncondisionally. He hurt my mom. He hurt me. He hurt my cousin. he roped me down to the bed, he hit me multiple times with his belt. I was sore and shaken when he took my pants off and stuck his head between my legs... I am 14 now... I live with my mother and step father. they love me he says im nieve but niether of them know what haPpend that day. This is the first time i have talked about it. I have a boyfriend and I have a kid. I love her uncondisionally. And were getting married with my step dads consent. I trust him and i told him and only him. i never wanted any different treatment for what had happend and i told him that. but he is still protesting everytime i tell my 1 year old that you cant go up to random people and talk to them...

Isnt it funny how the peope that say they will never hurt you hurt you the worst.





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Jul 15, 2010
Brittany:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Please talk to someone about this. These people are likely still doing this to others; they won't stop until they are made to stop. Get help for yourself. You don't know what you don't know. Getting married is not the answer; you can't see that right now, but at some point you will. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what happened to you. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jul 16, 2010
tell
by: Lisa

You need to talk to someone about what happened to you the longer you leave it the harder it will be and as you get older it will carry on affecting you. If you don,t want to talk too your mum yet then call the hot line they can help. You need the help and deserve the help.

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