Child Abuse Story From Brenda2

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Child Abuse Story From Brenda2

by Brenda
(Location Undisclosed)

My name is not really Brenda, but i would like to tell you my story and to tell you the truth im ashamed of it. because i did nothing to prevent it. i know i have problems. when i was about 8, my cousin, sexually abused me, he would lick my face, do what he had to do, and then he would leave, but first he would give me money. 100$, 300$. He even bought me a Tv. I've always felt unloved, dirty. So 2 years ago my cousin came to live with my family. We felt in love, and did it. My mother found out and kicked him out, my mother has never loved me. She's never helped me, taken care of me, and she always just beats me. Im thinking of suicide, but im not sure.

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May 21, 2010

Brenda:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. Please contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially about what's happened to you.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

May 22, 2010

Say "no" to suicide...and "yes" to getting help
by: Anonymous

Brenda, what your abusers are doing to you is truly pathetic and ungrateful because they are truly sick, sadistic, twisted, cruel sickos and they need help, so the sooner you tell someone about it, the better. Oh, and as this title says, say "no" to suicide because suicide will only let your abusers win, so, like I said, please tell someone you really trust.

May 22, 2010

You did nothing wrong
by: Mike

You did nothing wrong when you didn't tell on your cousin. Your cousin is obviously older than you and what he did was use your need for love to control you. Call one of the hotlines, or talk to someone you know you can trust. If you choose to talk to someone you know and they do nothing, talk to someone else. Stop thinking suicide and start thinking better life ahead.

May 22, 2010

Suicide is a NO No: You have a lot of LOVE to give
by: maurice

Brenda 2: Anonymous has given you the best of her true hearts feelings for you: I join her and want you to prove to the world Abusers can never be winners: You the Victim of abuse, You be the winner: Just reflect on Darlene's own story as she told it in book form: From Victim to Victory: She has proved to herself that there is Life to be lived after abuse: She is professionally trained and qualified to love, cherish and advice her many visitors on her site: She also lectures and travels extensively to re-assure people who have been abused that there is a life to be lived: I think you get my message to you: Always believe in yourself: Don't Quit: Don't give up on yourself: Please reflect on: when one feels at the lowest ebb the only way back is Up, Up and up: So off that botty of yours: Think positive thoughts: I CAN: I WILL: I MUST: YES YOU GUESSED RIGHT BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: I want what is the best for you now, get help, get counselling, you'll be fine. Please be brave, Be strong, have courage to do it: I will, I will: That the spirit Brenda 2: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes, Brenda 2 this will do you a power of good. Get out there taking part with a few friends, peers, like-minded people in team sports and cultural activities: The more you think about others the more you'll put love of yourself in perspective: You don't want to harm that beautiful body of yours and you certainly don't want to kill it: You have alot of love to share, alot of tallents and gifts to share: So please give other the blessingds of you in their lives: Ok, get on with it, Living each day to the full as you jump out of bed in the morning: You are in my thoughts and prayers:

May 23, 2010

I'm sorry
by: Hannah

Suicide is not the answer i promise you.I have thought about it over and over it won't help it just hurt;s you.I'll pray for you i don't know if your christian or not but i am and i am praying for you.I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

May 30, 2010

hi
by: Anonymous

this is not your fault my neighbor was in a similar situation, but 3 yrs after her abuse was over, her abuser dropped dead. No one knows what he died from but i'm glad the sicko is gone

Jun 05, 2010

it is not your fault
by: Chanelle

Dear Brenda2,
It may be helpful to ask yourself whether its the pain you want an end to, or your life?
It is totally understandable why you are thinking of suicide and why you blame yourself...
I hope that you have someone professionally or close to you whom you can talk to and give you the skills towards clarity and the healing you deserve..
all the best,
Chanelle

Jun 09, 2010

Not ur fault
by: Anonymous

No to suciced u did nothing wrong he hurt you you are not dirty u r just a klittle girl

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