Child Abuse Story From Arvoni

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Child Abuse Story From Arvoni

by Arvoni
(USA)

Well when i was 3 yeas old i was abused by my mom not so much of my dad. I was put in a pool of bleach because i was a bad girl when we went to church and i fell asleep as soon as we got home i would run and hide because i knew i was in for it i got beat with a belt and a swich i got hit with a tree branch so many times i would feel so bad for wat i did but in reaty i wasnt doing anything at all she was just a sick person but in the end i still love her and i alwasys will no matter what i cant even explain how much pain i was in i still have scares to this day i got cut with a knife on my right shoulder because when i was 5 i didnt get an A ON MY TEST buti went to school thiking everything would be good but in the end it just got worse ive been in foster care for 8 yeasr know and going on 9 nothing is getting better i still have flash backs from the things that happen to be i cant get over it but im trying really hard.

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Dec 13, 2011

Arvoni:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You don't have to do this alone. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy to help you deal with the terrible effects the child abuse has left you with. You've been betrayed and abandoned in the worst ways. You deserved, and still deserve, to be treated with dignity and respect and love. That didn't happen. It is now time for you to treat your Self with that dignity and respect and love. Getting past what happened to you is not about forgetting or about time going by. It's about the work you're willing to do for your Self in order to gain perspective. You weren't "bad". You weren't deserving of abuse. You had people in your life who were twisted and deeply disturbed. What happened to you wasn't your fault, and it will never BE your fault. Fault is on the shoulders of your abusers because they chose to abuse you. Reach out for whatever resources are available to you, Arvoni. You didn't deserve to be abused. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Dec 14, 2011

The Horror
by: Anonymous

Arvoni, I can't believe that your dad would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a mother and allow her to bat and berate you 24/7...how dare he! That's not even discipline; that's just torture. Oh, and throwing you into a pool of bleach is a really cowardly thing to do because only a coward would so such things to such a helpless little girl you once were. Oh, and as for using religion as a petty excuse to abuse you, that's not devotion; that's just despicable. You are not to blame for her sadistic, ignorant behavior; she is to blame because she chose to abuse you. She had all the power; she just chose to misuse that power over you. Oh, and please try talking to your foster parents because unless you tell, they might never know what you've been through. I also hope that you try counselling.

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