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Child Abuse Story From Anonymous39

by Name Undisclosed
(California, USA)




When I was in elementary school, I had surgery because my vagina was closing and sealing itself. So years later, my mom forced me to show it to her. She said it was because she "wanted to see if it was healing correctly", but I don't understand that because it was years later. When she tried to force me, I screamed "no" because I didn't want her looking at or touching me there. She threatened to hit me with kitchen utensils and she did. I remember I was wearing pajamas and she basically tried to rip them off of me and I tried as hard as I could to keep her from taking them off, she yelled so much and hit me. Before that, she used to make me show her my chest. I'm 17 now and she still does stuff, not like before though. Now she won't let me have that much privacy. Like not so long ago, we were looking at prom dresses and she made me let her come into the dressing room with me and she got mad when I turned around to take off my bra because I wanted privacy. She grabbed my arm and sort of whisper-yelled at me. I don't understand why she does this.




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Apr 30, 2010
Your mother is being highly inappropriate...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

At 17 years of age, you have the right to privacy if you want it. For whatever reason, your mother is not respecting that; and that makes me suspicious of her motives. If this continues, I suggest you contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 01, 2010
The sooner, the better...Darlene is right!
by: Anonymous

The sooner you tell someone about it, the better. Darlene is right! Please tell someone you really trust, such as a teacher, friend, church member, principal, police officer, etc. until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

May 01, 2010
Love, value and respect yourself and your body. YOUR DIGNITY
by: maurice

Good on you for wanting to keep your personal dignity and respect in tact from your very unreal Mother wanting you to show her your most beautiful and your most personal for what ever her motives. Be safe, stay strong now that you are 17 years of age. a young adult beautiful woman in your own right: You have rights, never allow another to abuse those rights. Darlene woman's heart woman's preogative in saying what she knows are your right to privacy: Now you have a healthy mind in that healthy and beautiful body of yours. Get out there with your friend and school mates takking part in sporting and cultural activities. Build up your own self-worth, self esteem, stay safe, be safe, You'll do that by valueing and respecting the true you: Be true to yourself, your family, your friends and GOD. Believe Darlene when she say your mother is inapropriate in her behaviour. I'm special, I love me, Never allow another to take your dignity from you

May 02, 2010
thank you
by: Anonymous

Thank you guys so much :)

May 04, 2010
questionable
by: Anonymous

Maybe your mother experienced something that was personal and she seems over protective. Possibly her parents dealt with her in this harsh manner.

May 04, 2010
I don't understand it
by: Anonymous

my grandma was very harsh towards my mom...but I don't think it gives her a reason to act this way. I mean she told us (my sister and I) that she would never be like her mother, but she still hits us and stuff...I don't understand it :(

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