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Child Abuse Story From Anonymous Girl

by Anonymous Girl
(USA)




Ok so im almost 16 now and don't know if this counts as verbal abuse, if it is, it is really mild.

I have aspergers wihch is like autism. I also have adhd, sensory intergration dysfunction, borderline schizoprenic and they say possible brain damage because i hit my head when I am mad.

Idk, I am really slow in school but really good at it, idk just lazy i guess. I don't understand stuff the way other people do and it makes them mad at me.

i don't like school cause ever since 4th grade, my teachers started calling me names. so far i am 'stupid', 'liar', 'idiot', 'slob', ignorant', 'pig', 'ugly' - oh and that is just the TEACHERS!

My 6th grade teacher made me stay in all the recesses because my desk was messy and she also dumped it on the floor in front of the class and made my classmates clean it and then they would throw my stuff at my head.

They also call me the names in front of the class. They'd also shout out my grades (which i think is private?) in front of the class too

There is much more (not involving) school, but i wont go into that here. I have already been to the pych ward, but they say i am fine.

3 days ago was my 64th attemt at suicide, yes i keep track, cause i am just weird like that. Oh, and i don't want noones attention.

oh, and my dad tried to smother me when i was 3.



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Apr 08, 2011
 To Anonymous Girl:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Teachers do not have the right to call you names and treat you the way you've been treated. That IS abuse. And it doesn't matter that you have Aspergers; you are a human being first, and as a human being you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. Please tell someone what is happening at school and at home. I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453). They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse; and you most definitely need to disclose this abuse. Teachers like this do not belong in the education system, and your father cannot be allowed to continue to abuse you either. Visit the Child Help website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
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From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Apr 08, 2011
 Why would teacher do such an ugly thing like that to you?
by: Cheza Blair Styder

Anonymous girl, your teacher had no right to call you names or other teachers.

You should've told the principal, that the teacher where calling you names. He would have gotten them fired anyway.

And your father tried to smother you, that is like a demon.

But you have to be strong...Tough and survive.
And, suicide isn't the awnser to everything okay?

Do not try to do suicide anymore okay?
Apr 09, 2011
 please
by: michelle f

Anonymous Girl you are very loved here,please you came here to talk we all can talk,thank you for telling me your story,I pray you seek out someone to tell that is near you where you live,the words that I JUST READ in your story are about a very beautiful girl,beautiful heart,in a very bad place i pray you get out this place i know you will make it honey please stop hurting yourself some people are so mean to very special people and what i mean by special is i love you for your heart and mind and i don't care what grades you make you don't want any attention but i do i want friends to talk to i want you to be my friend please don't stop talking to me would love to learn more bout u and your beautiful soul what do u like to do for fun me i like puzzles and kites and fishing and animals please write back
Apr 09, 2011
 The Horror
by: Anonymous

Those so-called teachers are wrong. You are not an idiot; you are not stupid; you are not ignorant; you are smart and articulate. You are not ugly; you are beautiful. You are not a pig; you are not a slob; you are perfect just as you were. Don't believe any of those lies that they are spewing. Oh, and they have no right to call you any names. That's not education; that's just torture and I'm sure that so many kids who have been bullied go to different schools in hopes of getting away from being bullied all the time. If those animals for teachers didn't want to be there, then they should've had the courage to quit their own jobs and find their replacements instead of abusing and humiliating you. The path that they and even your dad chose is inexcusable. As for your dad, he should go to jail for trying to smother you. Oh, and you are not to blame for their nearly sadistic behavior; they are to blame because abusers choose to abuse. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they only misused it over you, so the sooner you tell, the better. Please tell the principal and the police officers and keep telling until they will finally listen to you and help you.
Apr 10, 2011
 ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF:
by: maurice

I know you will: you were ever so brave, so strong, to tell and relate your inside belly button feelings of the hurt, embarrassment, caused to you by so called professionally trained individuals: Darlene's site is a safe place for you to know herself and her visitors love, honour, respect, value, trust, care, for each one who are so blessed and lucky to find Darlene's site: She is a visionary and an Angel: You, are wonderful, you are beautiful: you are gifted: you are tallented because you were born beautiful: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: I am certain you have loving, understanding people around you who you hug and who hug you back in return: You ain't annonymous you are a beautiful child of God and the Universe: I'M SPECIAL:

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