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Child Abuse Story From Anonymous For Jada

by Anonymous
(Location Undisclosed)




I have not been abused in anyway or form. But, I know what it's like. I lost a friend in early childhood because her father simply didn't care.

It was over 5 years ago now... so mostly a blur. I remember tears from me and my sister. Jada... her name their but faint. Her father was mean and horrible, most likely drunk. Jada pushed his nerves too far, but this isn't what she deserved! Dad got mad, picked her up. Head meets wall, picked up again, body smashes against wall. Done. Over. Jada is in the hospital as we watch the news on tv. Waiting for her fate. She is on some kind of machine, and her mom is crying. The reporter says the mom gets to pick. Jada can stay alive, but must stay on the machine for ever... or... well. Death. Who would want this fate? Who could make their daughter live a life like that? Of course, she let her daughter go to heaven. A friend lost because of a stupid neglection that lasted only seconds. RIP Jada. We still care.

P.S Her dad did go to jail, I just cant remember how long.

thank you.



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Child Abuse Story From Anonymous For Jada

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Jan 31, 2010
 Deepest condolences on the loss of your friend...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing Jada's story with my visitors and me. Her mother faced such a difficult decision, and her father paid the legal price. Jada is no longer in pain, but I sense that you are. I do hope you are able to enter into some form of counselling in order to get help dealing with the emotional toll this has taken on you.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Jan 31, 2010
 My God!!!!!
by: Dan1

I hope I NEVER have to make a decision like the one Jada's mother had to make. I can't even imagine how she must of felt as ahe watch her precious daughter in the hospital. My eyes nearly watered once I finished reading your story. That is THE most horrible thing any loving mother can go through. Jada's is obviously in a better place. She was so innocent and she never deserved that. I will never understand why any parent or adult would beat up a helpless child the way he did. it breaks my heart. May she rest in peace.
Feb 01, 2010
 Another Innocent Another Angel
by: maurice

Jada is back in the ARMS of an unconditional Loving God. In my christian belief she is another Angel guarding all who loved her during her brief time with her mother. Her Beast of a Father was off the wall, in jail forevr I would leave him. He is not HUMAN. What he did to Jada is totally unforgiveable. He deserves to be isolated from society. Jada was one beautiful birthed child of a mother who loved and cherished her. To have to make the decision she had is the worse pain a mother will have to endure ever. I hope Anonymous if you know her you will show her real love and encoursge her to get counselling and all the LOVE out there which she will need from her family and freinds. Thank you good person for sharing on Darlene's site. Heed her loving supporting words to YOU. You LOVE yourself look after you own personal needs to live with this memory of baby Jada. Come back to Darlene and her many visitors from time to time and share your giftedness with us all with your feelings.

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