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Child Abuse Story From Anon

by Anon
(Location Undisclosed)




Tired of family: 
My mother and brother bully me all the time. My big brother always touches my butt, my thighs, my arms, my shoulders, and he usually spanks me. He's always bullying me and putting me down, and everytime I give my opinion about something, or even when I'm sitting busy minding my own business, out of nowhere he insults me. When I insult back my mom defends him by saying "I don't care, don't insult your brother." And she even said he's her favourite. She treats me like crap. She hits me too. When I was 13 she used to hit me everyday for about a month, and my dad joined it too. I remember she caught my arms for stopping me from defending myself, while my dad whipped me. And she once squeezed my face with her foot till I couldn't breath. I still remember that, but she doesn't seem to care. I brought it back to her about 2 weeks ago and she said she doesn't care at all, and I deserve worse. She called me worthless, limited, dumb, ****** today. I really am tired of this situation.




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Child Abuse Story From Anon

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Sep 18, 2011
To Anon: NEW
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I gather you're female, but if you're not, I apologize for making the incorrect assumption. You didn't say where you live, so I can't point you to any specific hotline to call, except to say that if you live in any of the areas listed on my stories page, contact one of the hotlines there in order to talk to someone confidentially. If you don't live in any of these areas, please look into your local area to find women's groups and/or a child protection organization in order to talk to them about what you are dealing with. You ARE worthy of dignity and respect and love. Your mother is very twisted in her way of thinking, and so is your father. Your brother crosses the line and based on what you wrote, is at the very least bordering on being a sex offender. And your parents are doing nothing to stop it, which makes it neglect. Talk to someone you trust, someone who can help you. You don't deserve to be mistreated. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you are being mistreated. And always remember, what's happening is not your fault. Fault lies squarely on the shoulders of your abusers because they have chosen to abuse you. Don't believe the lies they are saying, because you are NOT those lies. I for one am delighted that you are here because I know you're making a difference in the world. The fact that you shared your story here is already making that difference. So hold your head up high, know that you are smart and articulate and worthy. I sure do. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Sep 18, 2011
i know what you mean NEW
by: Anonymous

my brothers both were my Mother's favorites and when my older brother molested me, my brother has since blamed me. I was seven. IKNOW how desperate it feels to be hit, to be molested...
Listen to Darlene, get some help... just keep reaching out to women's shelters and you will find help...
God bless you. YOU ARE WORTH IT... you are making a difference in MY world just by sharing your story...

Sep 19, 2011
The Horror NEW
by: Anonymous

Anon, your so-called mom is wrong. You are not dumb; you are very smart and articulate. You are not a ******; you are not limited; you are a good person. You are not worthless; you are worthy of (and even still deserve) love, protection, dignity and respect, all of which you were sadistically denied of, so never believe any of those lies that this sadistic brute of a mother is spewing. The path that they chose is inexcusable. They should go to prison for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because you did nothing wrong. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because, first of all, something's seriously wrong with them; second of all, they chose to abuse, offend and berate you. You were the child. they were the adults; they had all the power (while relinquishing some to your pervert of a brother) and they, along with your "brother", only misused that power over you. I hope that you're in a safe place now, far away from those brutes...and if not, please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

Sep 19, 2011
Please Oh Please Be gentle, kind, act now and get help NEW
by: maurice

Anon: Male Female; I am beautiful: I am a person in my own right just as I was when I was born, a child, adolecent young male/female. Parent's do some have a clue how to love and cherish the beautiful baby born to them: Yours sure don't, don't seem to have a clue, ignorant, unreal especially allowing your older brother to even spank you: Weird parents. Not the best: Darlene, is asking you to seek help, advice, have a good and true friend your own age and gender: A friend whom you can realte your intimate feelings and stuff to: Who will trust you, respect and value for the great and good person ou are in your own right: Who am I ? I AM. Amazing: The Architect of my own destiny, Beautiful; Both inside and out: Dynamic: ever changeing and ever growing: Intuitive: Looking for answers from within: Darlene has given you a few to work with: Lovable: Exactly as I am. Optimistic Anything is possible. Resourceful: Obstacles are stepping stones. Trustworthy: Speaking from the heart. Unique: And unrepeatable: There is only one me in this world NOW. I am Special: Stay in education if you are still young enough to be a student: Don't Quit: Don't give up on yourself: Most important: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: I know this will be of great benefit to you in living your life to the full: So get out there with people your own age and gender (like Darlene I understood U to be of the female species) but my apologies too: You are just one great and good child of the Universe and GOD. Oh yes, before I forget, get out there taking part in TEAM sports and sporting and cultural activities with like-minde people: You'll know the benefit is a short time: Value and resepct that body of yours: I am Valueable: I make a differenc; Xcited: about living and loving: Zestful: Happy to be me. Wise: Open to all life's lesson: Now ANON; read Darlene comment and Anonymous one: Both want what is the best for you: I will: I can I must because I am WORTH it:

Jan 22, 2012
CALL HELP!!!!!!!!!!
by: Anonymous

sweetie call help ok. 911. report child abuse. stash food, money and clothes and RUN AWAY. probaly to a frends house, but tell someone. my prayers go to u tonight. god bless you

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