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Child Abuse Story From AnnaLeigh

by AnnaLeigh
(Colorado, USA)




Daddy's Long Gone: 
It had been happening my whole life. I thought it was normal, that everyone's dad did that to them. He just said that it was to be kept quiet, but eventually, when I was about 8 I began to think that not everyone suffered as much as me. No one else had any burns or bruises on them, and nobody else wished that they were never born. For about 3 years I went on with life still wondering the same question, so one day when my dad hadn't had enough beers to be totally loopy, I asked him why he did this to me. I think that I must have frightened him or something because he went insane.

A couple days later when my mom returned from her "business trip" they were at it again. Screaming and yelling at each other. Then for about 25 minutes at least, it was silent. I thought it was over for tonight, but then I heard a loud boom. Almost like a gunshot. About 5 minutes later, my dad walked into my room with a backpack and a gun in his hand. He told me to come with him. Fearing him I obeyed. I had no idea where he was taking me, but no later then 10 minutes I realized what was going on. So I ran. As soon as he realized that I was running he followed. I finally got home and called 911. But since he wasn't that far behind me, he got there before I could talk to anyone. He grabbed me and threw me in "the closet". That is where he always put me when I got into trouble.

Later, I heard police cars. And from there it is just blank to me. Now I'm in therapy and I'm living in a foster home with some very nice people. But now ever since they took me away from my father I've been afraid of the dark. So I always sleep with the light on. Just incase.

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Child Abuse Story From AnnaLeigh

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Mar 25, 2009
Understandable fears...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

AnnaLeigh, it is completely understandable that you would be afraid of the dark. It wouldn't surprise me to learn you have other fears as well.

I'm delighted that you are in a loving foster home now, a place to grow and develop; you certainly deserve that in your life. You DIDN'T deserve to be mistreated in any way. Nor did you deserve to witness what happened to your mother; witnessing can be 'hearing', not just 'seeing' what went on. I gather when you say "Daddy's long gone" you are saying he is in prison for his crimes, where he should be. But given the traumas you experienced—what your father did to both you and your mother—I do hope you're in some form of counselling. You deserve that kind of help, AnnaLeigh.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator

Mar 26, 2009
AnnaLeigh The Brave young girl
by: Maurice

Oh Annaleigh my HEART GOES OUT TO YOU IN A LOVING THOUGHTFUL WAY THAT I FEEL SO PROUD OF YOU FOR REALIZIN THAT BRUTE OF A FATHER WAS NOT A GOOD PERSON TO YOU AT YOUR TENDER YEARS. GREAT NOW HE IS WELL OUT OF YOUR LIFE AND YOU CAN START LOVING THE BEAUTIFUL PERSON YOU ARE WITHIN AND WITHOUT. GREAT YOU NOW KNOW WHAT REAL LOVE OF HUMAN BEINGS IS ALL ABOUT. YOU LUCKY PERSON. I AM SO, SO HAPPY FOR THE ENDING OF THE DARKNESS OF THAT CLOSET AND THE FEAR PENETRATING YOUR INNOCENT MIND AND BODY. GREAT YOU CAN TRUST LOVING CARING ADULTS AND GOD KNOWS THERE OUT THERE ANNALEIGH. YOU BY SHARING YOUR STORY HAVE BENEFITTED OTHER TO ACCEPT THEIR OUT THERE FOR THEM TOO. YES, YES, DARLENE IS A MOTHER TO US ALL IRRESPECTIVE OF OUR AGE. SHE UNDERSTANDS AND KNEW SHE WAS DOING THE GOOD THING BY SETTING UP HER SITE. SAFE HAVE FOR THOUSANDS WHO VISIT IT INCLUDING YOU AND ME ANNALEIGH

Apr 01, 2009
Stay strong
by: Shane

I had similar experiences to yours, and I know how you feel. I just want you to know that you ARE LOVED! People love you and care about you. It's confusing when both parents are guilty of some pretty bad things (assuming your mom cheated like mine did), and i'm guessing your dad took out the anger on you. It still hurts me to this day for everything that happened, but I know you can be strong! Thank you for sharing your experiences, and it probably feels good to get it off your chest as it does me.

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