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Child Abuse Story From Anna4

by Anna
(USA)




What Did I Do For This? 
I dont know how to start. I lived with my mom and stepdad since i was little right now i am 14 it started when i was 10 and stopped when i was 14 i trusted my stepdad but that changed i was in my bedroom one night my mom wasent home he came in and sat on my bed and started to talk to me about sex i didnt want to and didnt feel right talking about it with him so i got up but he took my arm and took me to him and put his toung in my mouth i screamed and slaped him but he tied me to the bed and turned off the light and and did things to me i tryed not to remeber he stopped in about a hour i was hurting bad but i felt sick and nasty i started to cry i hated myself for it i hated him for making me feel so bad i didnt tell my mom it happend almost every night it stopped when i told the school counsler what was happing they told my mom and my mom sat me down and talked to me about it and asked me if that really happend i started to cry and said yes my mom never talked to my stepdad again i will never be myself again it will never leave my mind but i hope no other kids would go threw what i went threw i have a good life right know i have my friends and family to help me throught my 4 years of hurt i know im not alone in this world but all i can do is live my life the way i want to and keep moving forward.



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Jun 16, 2010
 None of what happened to you was your fault...NONE of it!
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Anna, I'm SO proud of you for telling, and so proud that your mother believed you and took steps to ensure you were kept safe. I will add this: Moving forward doesn't mean trying to forget about what happened; moving forward means dealing with the feelings and emotions of what happened to you. The support of family and friends is very important, but please consider talking to your mother about getting some form of counselling. You're so worthy of that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Jun 17, 2010
 A good mother is a good mother:
by: maurice

Anna 4 I am so happy your Mom believed you: She is a good Mom: very special: she has a trusting daughter/child in you: She will love and cherish you so you share your worries/feelings with her: Darlene who is known as the relationship lady knows best: Please read her comment to you: It is from her womans heart to you: She knows how you felt and must be still feeling from what that beast of a step-dad did to you: So act on her loving, encourageing words to you: Take action: you had the courage and you were ever so brave to trust your school counsellor with your painful hurting feelings after what that beast did to you: You'll be fine Anna 4: have a friend or two that you can share your girlie stuff with: a true and good friend is a golden nugget we all need in our life: I bet you have one: be safe: stay safe: Anna 4 I encourage you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: In other words get out and about taking part with other girls and your peers taking part in sporting and cultural activities: There is safety in numbers: Team sport are a fab way to share your giftedness: your tallents and also to feel good about your body: You be gentle and kind to yourself and your body: Be the winner over that beast's abuse of your beautifulness: Bad, Bad Man: Ok off your bottom and act on Darlene's comment to you: Live well: Laugh alot: love much: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: era go on give yourself a big hug and cuddle infront of the mirror: It makes you feel good all over: There is no one looking: go on, ah that is better don't you feel

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