Child Abuse Story From Anallasin

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Child Abuse Story From Anallasin

by Anallasin
(Location Undisclosed)

I Live on the south side of chicago. my fathers a angry drunk who gangbangs, and my brothers are too. imma second generation ladyTS (gangbanger) my mom died when i was 4 so i dnt remember her much. when my dad brings his freinds around and drink they would rape me. this started when i was 6 and has kept on goin on, now im 17. ive tried to leave the gang and drug life but my father keeps bringin me back in. i cant have a real relationship with a guy cuz i dnt trust any guys. i guess this is part of being a young mexican gurl in CHicago...

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Sep 18, 2011

Anallasin:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I bristled when you called yourself a "gangbanger". When we call ourselves such things, we don't only label ourselves, we begin to believe that's what we actually are. But that's not Who You Really Are. Who You Really Are is much deeper than any label, especially one with such a disturbing background. You CAN get out of what you have been forced to endure, but you must really want out, and then act. Reach out to whatever organizations and agencies there are out there. At seventeen and in the situation you are in, you're in a unique position. If you live in the USA, I strongly suggest you contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). They have advocates available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week who can provide crisis intervention, escape planning, information and referrals to victims or anyone calling on their behalf. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.ndvh.org/

You don't deserve to be living this way, Anallasin. You most definitely deserve help for the fact that you are being forced to live this way. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect and love. Start by treating your Self with that dignity, respect and love. Call the number above. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Sep 18, 2011

hard to get what you need
by: Anonymous

sometimes it's good to shake up your parents. You should call the police next time they try to involve you in anything gang related. But that is scary. Try reaching out to a woman's shelter. I have done that and it is surprisingly helpful and very safe. Also, if there are some sisters of the catholic church or a priest nearby who work with gangs, get them aware of what is going on in your home. They work really hard to reach out to gang members. You don't have to be a practicing catholic to ask for their help.

God bless you and don't forget that being Mexican is a good thing! Mexico is a beautiful heritage, very maternal and very cultural. The food, the dancing, the music, the religious life are all wonderful. So don't put yourself down for being Mexican.

Sep 19, 2011

My new LABEL is I am AMZAING: The architect of my OWN Destiny:
by: maurice

Anallasin: Think about that New Label: Know then That Anonymous and Deffineately Darlene want what is the best for you NOW so that you can begin to live a Normal life: All you have been doing is existing and survibg in a hell-hole of Abuse: Forced on YOU by animalistic and beastly thinking individual one who happens to be your Father: Darlene says to you lovingly from her woman's heart YOU don't have to be living this way: You most deffineatley need help for the fact that you are being forced to live this way: You deserve to be treated with Dignity, RESPECT and LOVE (real) Anonymous: There is a heart comment too for you to ponder on: My heart is with theirs: GET HELP for yourself NOW; Anallasin: You will have to surround yourself with genuine and true friends who will take you into their hearts and maybe into a safe place away from that depraved Hell-Hole that you are forced against your will to be in: I know you are intelligent, gifted, YOU are aware this has been part and parcel of your life since you were six years of age: Beautifully too innocent and vunerable to take charge of of your own life and destiny: Those beasts/animalistic out of their brains in drugs were incapable of treating you with Dignity and Respect: From the NOW time of your life with your cry for help here on Darlene's safe Haven Site begin to LIVE your LIFE TO THE FULL: I will: I can: I must: because I am WORTH it. Start treating yourself with that Dignity: Love and RESPECT which should have been your right all these years: LOOK in the mirror: Scream, shout or just firmly say it to yourself: I AM NOT A GANG-BANGER: THAT IS NOT WHO I REALLY AM: My new Label is goinf to be: I am AMAZING: The architect of my own destinty: I am BEAUTIFUL: Both inside and out: DYNAMIC: Ever changing, ever growing. ENTHUASTIC: About living and LOVING. HEALTHY: Full of energy: Oh Anallasin: I hope you are in School: College (maybe not) but I want you to start mixing with other Adolecents, young adult thinking women your own age: where possible taking part in TEAM sports: sporting and cultural activities: Where there's a will. There is a WAY; You've got it Anallasin: My new Label contains: I am LOVABLE Exactly as I am: Optimistic Anything is possible: POWERFUL: Beyond Imagination: RESOURCEFUL: Obstacles are stepping stones. TRUSTWORTHY: Speaking from the heart ( You have done that here with Darlene and her visitors) UNIQUE: And Unrepeatable: VALUEABLE: I make a difference. WISE: Open to LIFES lessonsL XCITED: About Living and Loving: ZESTFUL Happy to be me: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF ANALLASIN: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT. Read Anonymous Comment I agree with her there is help out there for you in the places she believes and knows will help you: I will, I can, etc Anallasin:

Sep 20, 2011

Your body belongs to you only!
by: Jill

Anallasin,
First of all, you're a person. Forget all the labels! Every person on earth has the right to be treated with dignity. Your father and the people he's hanging out with have obvious personal problems. They have never treated themselves or anyone else with dignity. There is no doubt that their own childhood was filled with abuse where someone else did the same with them.

See them for what they are, lost children trapped inside of men's bodies. Now what would any self-respecting 17 year old girl do with a bunch of men who act like 3 year olds? Leave permanently while they take their nap and find people to get help from that act their age.

There are so many routes for you to leave and get help in Chicago. I had a childhood where men took advantage of my body whenever they wanted. When I realized that no one had the right to my body but me, I left that world forever.

You deserve to treat yourself with dignity so go for it!

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