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Child Abuse Story From Ami

by Ami
(Illinois, USA)




My evil abuser: 
My dad started physically abusing me when I was 3 years old and kept doing it until I was 13. If I did something wrong-like break a toy or spill some water on the carpet-he would pick me up and bring me up to his room. It became like a ritual.

He would say: "Why must I disciple you?"

I would say: "Because I am a bad girl and I broke my toy."

Then I would have to strip down to bare skin. Then he would say: "Belt, wrench, or yardstick?" I would go find my choice, and then my dad would beat my butt with it until it turned purple. Then he would make me sit naked on the wooden kitchen table for 1 hour, or til he thought I had learned my lesson. Then, he would have me return to his room and he would use his bare hand on me. This hurt the worst because my skin was already tender.

When I was 13, we started having to change for gym class and my teacher saw my scars and bruises and I was put in foster care.

I am now 32 years old. I don't even know if my dad is alive.

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Nov 16, 2008
That teacher was your saviour...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It's so good to learn that one of your teachers reported the abuse that was so obvious, and that you were ultimately put in foster care. I do hope you experienced a better life in foster care than you did with your father. Given what he was capable of when you were so little, I can only imagine what he would have been capable of as you got older. I'm glad you didn't have to find out.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Nov 16, 2008
Monster for a father
by: Francine

Your father is wrong, Ami. You are not bad; you are A GOOD GIRL. Even if you did something wrong, like breaking a toy or spilling water on the carpet, DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO GET BEAT FOR WHAT YOU DID. I hope your so-called father got thrown into jail for the rest of his miserable life. To make matters worse, HE EVEN TOOK PLEASURE IN DISCIPLINING YOU!!!! I'm so glad that the teacher called the cops (and that the cops sent you to foster care) cuz they're so sweet for doing that. NO PARENT, WHETHER HE/SHE IS BIOLOGICAL, OR STEP, SHOULD EVER CALL YOU NAMES, SUCH AS BAD, AND THEY SHOULD NOT GLOAT ABOUT BEATING YOU.

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