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Child Abuse Story From Amanda

by Amanda
(Austin, Texas, USA)

I never would have dreamed I would end up like the kids on the news programs that had parents who hurt them. But it can happen to anyone. October 15th 2005 was the day it all began.

It was my 15th birthday, yes my golden birthday. I had a good day. I had loads of friends there and we had an amazing time. But the day flew by. Soon enough it was late and I was cleaning up the garage where the party was held.

At my party my "crush" went up to my parents and asked permission to date me. My father was not thrilled, but my mother quickly answered with "Of course!"

As I was cleaning up the garage, I heard my parents arguing inside the house. I tried to ignore it. But then I heard the front door open and I could hear it very clearly now. "Elizabeth, I'm gone after tonight, I'm gone! You are unbelievable. She is only 15!"

I had started a fight just to be with a boy.

I fell to my knees and began to cry as my dad stormed out of the house, carrying his suitcase. I watched him leave for good, but that was only the beginning of my nightmare.

Soon my mom began drinking, and became more and more stressed. She began to scream at me for no apparent reason.

Then on Christmas day, she realised it was time to show me. "You little b***h. You f****d up my life." Then she hit me.

I promised it wouldn't happen ever again. It did.

In June of 2006, I was at a pool party, but I wouldn't take off my clothes to get in the water. All my friends kept saying, "Amanda, you're beautiful. Just get in!"

So I did. As I walked to the pool-side, every one of them stared. My best friend's mom, Kelly, took me aside and asked about the bruises. I told her what had happened. I stayed with them for a few weeks. When I went home to get the rest of my belongings, it happened.

I was trying to hurry so I could get outta there as soon as possible. I heard the latch to the door of my room. I turned around. My mother had a gun in her hand. It was aimed at me. I was so afraid. Then. Bang! The gun went off. I felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. She had shot me!

She is in jail now. And I am slowly recovering, but I'm better. I live with my auntie. And we are strong.

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Child Abuse Story From Amanda

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Oct 21, 2007
Argument was NOT about you wanting to be with a boy
by: Darlene Barriere

You did not start the fight, Amanda; your parents were the ones who did that. You were not to blame. Don't continue to carry that guilt around with you. And you sure as heck weren't to blame for the way your mother chose to deal with her problems. You deserved to have both parents with you, loving you and nurturing you.

Your mother must be held accountable for what she did to you. I'm very glad to hear that she is now in jail and that you are safe with your auntie. I do hope you stay strong.


Oct 21, 2007
How Could She?!
by: Francine

Amanda, I'm so sorry about what you had to go through! What your mother did to you is so brutal and wrong! You are not a bitch! At least I'm so glad that your mother went to jail for trying to shoot you to death and I'm also glad that you moved in with your loving aunt! But I also strongly advise you to try some counselling if you are still having problems. You are so smart; don't ever let anyone think otherwise! The only stupidity that I see comes from your mother! You deserve for her to say, "I'm wrong. I'm very, very wrong. I'm so sorry."

Oct 24, 2007
omg
by: Fallengirl

I can't beleive your mom hit you, all because of a boy. Somenone should tell your parents that its life. But being shot by your mom, just isn't right. I'm glad your okay and that you are doing well now, all you can do is hope for the best as your continue your way to recovery.

Oct 24, 2007
I appreciate you shareing
by: Anonymous

Thank you for shareing your story, I am a 17 year old female living in Hot Springs, Arkansas and i am useing your story and a few others for a speech on child abuse and neglect. I will be reporting your story as true and will also relate mine...thanks...
Mika

Oct 24, 2007
wow
by: Anonymous

wow that's just....wow.
i was honestly blown away by your story. i have parents that argue, yell at me and hit me but they haven't done more then that.
thank you for sharing your story.

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