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Child Abuse Story From Allison M

by Allison M
(NJ/Portugal )




Physically and Emotionally: 
Well it all started when i was four years old or younger my dad and mom use to spank me really hard with wooden spoon because i wouldn't eat. Then when i turned five i went into kindergarten and you know you start learning your ABC'S and numbers well i wasn't slow or any thing i just couldn't memorize the numbers and letters then when i needed to study if i missed say 4 or 5 i get yelled at and and they would spank me. I would cry like crazy until i finally got it right. After i did they would give me candy??. couple years go by i was 11 years old. my mother would tell me that im worth less. some times she would go psycho on me and my sister she looked like she got poised or some thing. my father would just spank us really hard for nothing. my sister told me when she was little like 4 and up they use to beat her because she couldn't get math or any thing. so then my mother told us back then i would got put in jail for beating her just to get her times tables correctly. Im now 13 going on 14 life is very emotional ive been called emo but i didnt cut my self!. once in wile i will cry in my room and lock the door. Hoping for my parents not to come up. My parents look like every normal day parents just came back from punta cana my father got extremely wasted he was very abusive to us. And so that my story of my life so far some times i think to my self should i tell the school?? i told my best friend, he was gonna make me go tell them but i wasn't physically and emotionally to admit it. im depress been suicidal but i think to my self every time i try killing my self i say to my self i wanna see me have kids have a family grow up go to collage experience the world how it suppose to be. And reason i havent told the school because i feel bad if they go to jail. My 14th Birthday is coming up September 26 lets hope i dont get yelled at for some reason or spank for no reason. I would love to make sure its normal this year. This is my story. so far of my life.

Locks of Love:Allison M




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Child Abuse Story From Allison M

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Sep 01, 2010
Allison:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, I must say that you need to tell someone what you are going through, someone who can help you. The chances that your parents will go to jail are pretty much slim to none. More importantly, you need help. The fact that you have considered suicide is very troublesome; for that, you most definitely need to talk to someone.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Sep 02, 2010
from someone who understands
by: Anonymous

I understand that you don't want to see them go to jail or get in real big trouble because deep down inside they are still your parents and you love them. But also understand that if you don't tell and they could one day kill you and that would be worse. You deserve to have a happy child hood and i know that foster care is no better and adoption usually takes years. But sweetheart you deserve better you and your sister. I think you should take your friends advice and tell the authorities. I'm praying for you and our sister and I hope that God brings you out of this situation alive and well. Trust in the Lord and believe in his word he will give you the strength that you need i promise.

Sep 03, 2010
Your parents are out of control
by: Anonymous

Allison, your parents are wrong. you are not worthless; you are worthy of love, dignity and respect...and you are also perfect just as you are. Your parents have problems and they should've known better and loved and cherished you and your sister. They need help...but you need help too, so the sooner you tell someone you really trust, the better.

Sep 06, 2010
TELL!
by: Nicky

Dear Allison

Please, please be strong and tell someone in Authority. You had the courage to tell your friend, now have the courage to tell a teacher. No one has the right to treat you like this! your mum and dad need help very quickly. I know it's easier said than done but you must. The world can be a fun and exciting place and your at a time in your life when you sould be enjoying school, your friends and a whole lot more. Build up courage and show these people who are supposed to protect you and love you that it is not acceptable for them to treat you like this for any longer. Make the change my dear. You are not alone! I'll say a prayer for you and hope you make the right decision. All my love, Nicky

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