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Child Abuse Story From Alicia

by Alicia
(Colorado, USA)




Twice in my life: 
It all started when I was still reAl young about 4 before I stared school it was my moms boyfriend he would come into my room and he he touch me then to bribe me not to tell he would give me candy and when I would take showers or baths he would make me take them upstairs that way he could just walk in and ever he wanted to when ever he would he would leave the door open that at o could watch the older I had gotten he would start to tell me stuff like if yu tell I will hurt ur brother so I just stopped saying no and to keep him safe and until one day I went to school I was shaking real bad I had to say something I could not keep going through it so I say something and things got better The that I moved in wth my grand parents and then I was 7th grade an seen one night I was pretending to sleep and I felt a hands going down my pants and peeled my eye open and saw it was my cousin I different low what u do I was s scared and I Just let him so soon after a while he got comfortable and just did it day after day I said no once but thought it want wasn't going to work because of my first experiencesomething to aunt moved away and now that teenager grew up add he its now in the army and could not under stand how was it because he was under age at the time and now to this day I am 19 and still get scared to be alone with older men if they get close I start to get uncomfortable and just move away from them




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Jan 12, 2012
Alicia:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You were so brave to tell! I applaud and commend you for not keeping the secret. Now, at this time in your life, you can't deal with this all alone. Please reach out for any help that's available to you. Seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to deal with all the affects the abuse has left you with. Know that what happened at the hands of these sex offenders was not your fault. Fault lies solely on their shoulders because they chose to sexually abuse you. They were the adults, Alicia. You were the child. That means they had all the power over you, and they misused that power. They took advantage of your youth and your vulnerabilities. Chances are, you were not their only victims. It is highly likely they have sexually abused other children, and may well be sexually abusing them even today. Consider reporting what these pedophiles did to you before the statute of limitations runs out. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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