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Child abuse Story From Alexis W

by Alexis W
(Texas, USA)




I was emotionally abused for two 1/2 years. i was 9-10 for most of it and i'm 11 now. she was my step- mom, and i knew it was never going to work out with them. I never knew it was child abuse until now when i read what child abuse was. She yelled cuss words at me and called me those words. she stole from me then said she was punishing me for doing something wrong. She hurt my father too. she hit him then called the cops and said he hit her. she threw his laptop at the wall. She grabbed my arm multiple times then thew me into my room and told my friends i couldn't see them because she just decided i was grounded. She had double standards for me and her own daughter. She also drank lots of wine, but she wasn't drunk for many of these happenings. It got so bad that i started packing a runaway bag that had food, soap, a water bottle, and books so i could run away when i wanted to. That woman is the reason for my very low self esteem and very low grades. Everyone thinks that i blame myself, but i don't. My mother is everything in all this. She helped me so much. I told her everything that my step-mom did and she is on my side 110 percent. It's getting better i think now that i've told someone.




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Jul 11, 2011
Alexis:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm SO glad you told, and that your mother is so supportive. I do wonder why your father doesn't step up and BE a father. He's enabling your stepmother's abuse. Even though he's being abused by her too, he's the adult. And as your father, it's his responsibility to protect you from harm. Now that you've told your mother, I do hope you're getting some form of counselling for what you've endured. You didn't—DON'T—deserve to be mistreated. You deserve help for the fact that you have been. Stay strong, Alex, and always remember that you ARE loveable and worthy of dignity and respect. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Jul 12, 2011
be brave: Be Strong: Love your beautiful Sell
by: maurice

Alexis W Step-mothers can be cruel, abusive especily to the child of another woman: Your Father should have protected you he was a weak man; If she hit him what chance had you being innocent and vunerable: Great your natural and biological MOM loves and cherishes you and believed you: That is your blessing: Get some form of counselling which will put your abuse in perspective: Always believe in yourself: Have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: Be safe, stay safe, stay in education, Alexis W I am precious and special and I will Always Believe in Myself: Let your motto be I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT:Have a healthy mind in a healthy body Alexis W; This will mean you getting out there with your friends, fellow students, like-minded girls your own age taking part in TEAM sports and sporting and cultrual activities: After a while you'll know the difference: You'll build up your self confidence and self esteem: You have gifts and tallents to share with people so practise your leadership qualities and be a good team person; Be gentle and kind on yourself and your body: Value and rspect your self so in turn others will value and respect you for the good and wonderful young woman you are Today in there lives:

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